Your Earth-plane existence is and always will be dictated by what you draw in and allow. If you choose to be put down, trodden up and otherwise disrespected, it is yours. If, on the other hand, you choose to be respected and admired for who you are (not WHAT you have), that experience will be yours.
A challenge for you today: take time and really LOOK at what you experience in an average day. What would you change? With that held firmly in mind, move one thought toward the positive. You have, and always have had, the power to change everything. ~ Creator.