So many enlightening human beings have been through challenging times where they have been abused, dismissed, used, and taken for granted. This is a core wound that many of you are working on healing.
The first step is to understand that many of you are on the planet with service contracts. This made being a giver very natural to you, but receiving felt far less comfortable. Shifting into a better balance of giving and receiving, of loving and being loved, of supporting and being supported, is key for you moving forward.
Many of you tried to embody unconditional love without remembering to include yourselves in your own tender care. It is never loving to let someone continually treat you with less respect than you deserve, for that is supporting them in showing up in less than their highest selves and enabling poor behaviour, which is disempowering for everyone involved.
As you are learning to love and honour self as much as others, you are stepping into far better boundaries and balance than ever before. You have learned that unconditional love serves and honours everyone in moving into their highest version of self. You have learned the importance of creating a safe space to support that healing and evolution. And you have accepted the fact that you absolutely deserve the same love and support back that you have so willingly given others.
After focusing on being willing to receive, remembering to include yourselves in your unconditional love practices, and having healthier boundaries, it is time to create a new declaration of self moving forward, that far better represents what you want and deserve.
An example of this might be, “I am always treated with love, respect, and consideration.” Try on different affirmations until you find the one that feels best to you energetically, and allow it to lead the way forward for you in a way that honours you like never before. ~Archangel Gabriel