Conditional & Unconditional Love ∞The 9D Arcturian Council — Daniel Scranton’s Channeling – February 13, 2020

Conditional & Unconditional Love ∞The 9D Arcturian Council, Channeled by Daniel Scranton

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.

We have begun to understand humanity’s fascination with being seen and heard. You all want the best parts of yourselves to be presented to the world. You want to be seen for the person that you know you can be when you are at your best, and you want to express the things that you know will get you the most approval. This cycle of conditional love and approval gets started at a very young age. →

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Love Yourselves Unconditionally ∞The 9th Dimensional Arcturian Council via Daniel Scranton – October 19, 2018

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.

We have a perspective that we would like to share with you on what we see as the continuation of some programming you picked up when you were very young on this planet in this lifetime. We see you looking for reasons to love yourselves. We see you attempting to earn your own love through something that you would accomplish or become, even from the way that you look.

We are noticing that this conditional love got started in childhood for most of you when you learned very quickly what would please your parents, and your teachers, and even your friends. You also learned what would get you in trouble or not please the other people in your life. And most of you could feel the withholding of love during those times when you disappointed someone important in your life.

Now, as adults, most of you continue to run that programming. Most humans have not found a way to love themselves unconditionally. Instead, you work very hard to try to earn your own love, and then you get into a romantic relationship, and you expect the other person to love you unconditionally, even though you have not found the ability to do that for yourself.

So you go from relationship to relationship, looking for someone to give you the love that you never really got from another human and haven’t been able to supply to yourself. So we are here to tell you how important it is to let yourself off the hook, to not let your self-love be performance based, and we want you to show yourselves even more love when you have met with a defeat of some kind, or when someone else has proven once again that they are not loving you unconditionally.

That is when you need your own love to come forth from within you. You need to access it, you need to feel, and you need to give it to yourselves freely, without hesitation, without condition, and no matter what anyone else says or does to you. In fact, if you’re being mistreated by others, you need to give yourselves more love and more compassion. It makes perfect sense, if you think about it. Who better to love you than the one who knows your entire story?

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”

SourceDaniel Scranton

Daily Message ~ Saturday March 24, 2018

 

Dear Ones, do you have trouble accepting love because you fear it will come with strings attached? The core of this fear is that you will be beholden to another or be enslaved. This is based on the old model of conditional love which is a model of using love to control another. These are old energies which are looking to be released.

Understand that if you have these fears they are old experiences/energies that are looking for healing. The core of this is the idea that love means giving your power away. As power is a major theme on your planet right now, all the ways that power has been abused, misused, or misrepresented are up for review. This is a wonderful thing!

When you love with an attachment to what another may or may not do, you are still attempting to find success within a conditional love model. The love you seek exists on an entirely different vibrational layer.

Love, the unconditional love you know in your heart truly exists and is what you wish to experience, is an expression of self. It is love without attachment to outcome because you understand that the joy is in the giving of it, in the allowing of it to flow to you and through you. You know that love in its purest form is expansive, healing, supportive, and freeing.

Further, because you understand you are a being of love, you do not see it as a limited resource but rather as an abundant flow with more than enough for everyone. Because you also understand the importance of giving love to yourself, you are sated with it already. You draw to you more of what you hold. You are no longer dependant upon the wild card of what others may or may not do for your happiness. You realize that holding yourself separate is denying yourself the sustenance of your soul.

Just as you and your entire planet are evolving, so is your definition and experience of love. This is a sign of true evolution, for it is love that holds the healing you are all ready to accept and express, in order to move forward into your highest potentials. The days of giving and receiving love as currency are over. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

http://trinityesoterics.com/2018/03/24/daily-message-saturday-march-24-2018/

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Daily Message ~ Thursday March 15, 2018

 

Let us suppose that you have been yearning for delicious, succulent, nutritious fruit. Your body craves it, knows it exists, and you feel that it is incredibly important for your health and well being. Other people talk about how amazing the fruit is, in fact, it is so wonderful they have been writing songs and stories about it for centuries.

But what you have been given throughout your life has been sour and bitter. It hasn’t supported you in any way, in fact it makes you feel worse. You question it, but the people around you tell you it is the fruit you want, so you start to believe it. Deep down you know there is something wrong, but you are lost in your conditioning, so you carry on, either trying to hack it down or avoid it completely. In fact, throughout your life many other people have tried to give you fruit but you reject it immediately because it is so unpleasant to you. When people ask you for fruit, you give them the only fruit you know.

Until one day, you are old enough to venture out on your own, and through your own growth, your inner knowing, and your own explorations, you discover that you had never had the fruit you always knew existed! What you were given all this time was something entirely different. The real fruit IS delicious and wonderful! It’s completely satisfying, enjoyable, and sustaining. So the question is, now that you know what you were given all those years was not real fruit, do you continue to be afraid of and avoid the real thing?

Dear Ones, this is what has happened to you with love. Many of you have experienced the absence of love, labelled as love. Many of you have only experienced control or conditional love. Yet you know unconditional love and the acceptance and healing it brings exists and is what you seek. So we ask you, at what point do you start to accept that it wasn’t love that hurt you at all? Can you see love has never been the enemy or the thing to avoid? Can you start to live your life based on the new truth and healing that comes from this discovery? ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

http://trinityesoterics.com/2018/03/15/daily-message-thursday-march-15-2018/

http://soundofheart.org/galacticfreepress/