Love Yourselves Unconditionally ∞The 9th Dimensional Arcturian Council via Daniel Scranton – October 19, 2018

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.

We have a perspective that we would like to share with you on what we see as the continuation of some programming you picked up when you were very young on this planet in this lifetime. We see you looking for reasons to love yourselves. We see you attempting to earn your own love through something that you would accomplish or become, even from the way that you look.

We are noticing that this conditional love got started in childhood for most of you when you learned very quickly what would please your parents, and your teachers, and even your friends. You also learned what would get you in trouble or not please the other people in your life. And most of you could feel the withholding of love during those times when you disappointed someone important in your life.

Now, as adults, most of you continue to run that programming. Most humans have not found a way to love themselves unconditionally. Instead, you work very hard to try to earn your own love, and then you get into a romantic relationship, and you expect the other person to love you unconditionally, even though you have not found the ability to do that for yourself.

So you go from relationship to relationship, looking for someone to give you the love that you never really got from another human and haven’t been able to supply to yourself. So we are here to tell you how important it is to let yourself off the hook, to not let your self-love be performance based, and we want you to show yourselves even more love when you have met with a defeat of some kind, or when someone else has proven once again that they are not loving you unconditionally.

That is when you need your own love to come forth from within you. You need to access it, you need to feel, and you need to give it to yourselves freely, without hesitation, without condition, and no matter what anyone else says or does to you. In fact, if you’re being mistreated by others, you need to give yourselves more love and more compassion. It makes perfect sense, if you think about it. Who better to love you than the one who knows your entire story?

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”

SourceDaniel Scranton

Daily Message ~ Monday July 2, 2018

healingbeyondguilt

As a continuation of our recent message on shame and guilt, we would like to address another aspect of shame – when others have shamed you, or made you feel guilty or shameful.

Shame and guilt have been aspects people have used to control others for centuries. Shame has been used as a tool to control children and get them to behave in a certain manner. It has been used to keep people small, from stepping into their own authentic power, and from shining their own light beautifully and unabashedly.

Shame and guilt that have been heaped upon children is particularly damaging, for it creates a belief system within them that they are inherently bad or not good enough, which erodes self esteem and self confidence.

To be clear, most instances of the use of guilt and shame as an aspect of control was used as a means to an end, to get an immediate change of behaviour without the full understanding of how damaging it was over the long term. People use guilt and shame thinking that will somehow mold another into a better person, without the full understanding of the long term detrimental effects they have. For many, that was how they were raised and they don’t know any better.

If you have been on the receiving end of guilt and shame from others, the first thing we wish for you to understand is that anyone who has an interest in judging you is simply not qualified to do so. If they had the vantage point to see you in your truth and offer an opinion on that, they would only encourage you and remind you of your own perfection and divinity as an individuated aspect of Source energy.

We understand that the reality of this is that guilt and shame results in deep conditioning to think that you are not good enough. But the good news is you now know better than this. You know, within your heart, that you are a beautiful and honoured part of the whole. You know as a child you were innocent and divine and perfect, exactly as you were. You know, that while it may have come from ignorance, you never deserved that treatment. You know you deserved love, acceptance, and encouragement to grow into everything you could ever be.

But here is the good news. Your wounded inner child or wounded adult self doesn’t care where the love, acceptance, and encouragement comes from, it just cares that it gets what it so desperately needed back then. And you have the wisdom and compassion to go, right now, and give that to your self.

So enter into meditation and gather that hurting you into your arms and cover him or her with kisses, and love, and reassurance, and every last thing you didn’t get. Tell him or her the people that were around you didn’t understand the truth of who you are and simply didn’t know any better (if they had known better, they would have done better). Treat that part of you like the precious being it has always been, and pledge to never let him or her go through that ever again.

Bottom line is, if you called a horse a cow its entire life, it wouldn’t make it less of a horse. It would only affect it if it started to believe it really was a cow, and even then trying to be a cow would not come easily because a part of it would always remember its true essence which was horse. All that would be required to step back into its truth would be another horse to come along and remind it of its true beingness, or the horse finally allowing itself to see its own reflection and believe that reality.

It is never too late to give yourself what you needed. You have grown into a beautiful, caring, loving soul in spite of all you have been through. If that isn’t enough to celebrate who you are and embrace your glorious truth, we don’t know what is. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

Source: Trinity Esoterics

How To Improve Your Self Love & Shift Your Relationship With Your Partner — September 30, 2017

Self love can be a difficult subject for many people to address, especially because it’s one that society frowned upon for a while. Strengthening your love for yourself was often viewed as vain, and even to this day it’s mistaken as being selfish. What we sometimes fail to recognize is that you cannot treat others with…Read more

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Amazing Presentation from Bentinho Massaro at the 2017 Eclipse of Disclosure Conference (Video) — September 30, 2017

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Narcissism Has Reached Epidemic Levels in the United States — Could Self-Compassion be the Cure? – June 24, 2017

June 25th, 2017 By Carolanne Wright Contributing Writer for Wake Up World Narcissism is on the rise. We see it on social media, in friends and family — even ourselves, if we’re lucky enough to be self-reflective. In fact, Jean Twenge, author of Generation Me, believes we are experiencing a “narcissism epidemic” in America. To…

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7 Things They Never Told Me At School – But Could Have – June 20, 2017

June 21st, 2017 By Paul A. Philips Guest Writer for Wake Up World It’s funny, but when asked about things learnt that have served to be the greatest contribution to their lives most people will not mention anything from school days. Have you noticed this? I can say that the things I have learnt which…

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Learning And Growing – May 24, 2017

A gentle reminder; you can choose to embrace our responsibility for things in your life or you can choose to ‘point the finger’.  Faith, trust, love or the lack thereof, action and reaction is all yours.  Some of you may feel this is punishment.  That is the furthest thing from the truth.  It is a learning and growing process in which you participate.  Love yourself for it because it may never happen again. ~ Creator

Source: The Creator Writings 

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