Dear Ones, it is so important that you decide for yourselves what any element is like for you. What ease looks like for you might be something completely different for another person. What you consider support might be the last thing another person needs and vice versa. What is fun for you may be an awful time for others. Even your expressions of love can be vast and varied.
Most of your dissatisfaction comes from not even knowing your own preferences because you’ve been so conditioned and influenced by how society, your friends, and your families think things should be. How on earth can you create a life of comfort and ease that holds the perfect matches for you if you’ve never given yourself time to discover your true desires?
It is also important to understand that your needs and preferences will continue to shift as you continue to evolve. So we urge you to take the time to get to know yourselves and what works for you in your present moment. You are the empowered expert on you! Taking the time to explore, understand, and honour your needs is what will allow you to create much more satisfying experiences and conditions.
Taking the time to ask, “Is that what I really want or need, or is it what others say I should want or need?” before you make any choices is an empowered act of self love and self acceptance, that will bring you far greater clarity and thus transform all your creations into better feeling outcomes. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young